September 25th, 2009 / 3:48 pm
I Like __ A Lot

Favorite Words

196495419_335af2decdIn past conversations, Blake and I have talked about the kinds of words we most often rely upon in our writing, and whether or not we should break from them or embrace them, or both. For example, I noticed Blake seems to like rhythmic -ed words, like ‘befucked’ and ‘squidged’ and so on, and he uses them quite a lot in his writing.

Then, while reviewing SAT words with a high school student the other day, I thought of how I should make a list of words I like to use when I write, or a list of words I would like to use in another story. I went through a bunch of my past stories and reread them for words I remember liking as I wrote them into the text. I’ve listed them here with a few sentences of explanation.

What words do you like? Do you have words you use too much? Words you want to use more? Do you maintain lists of these words? Is it possible to talk about words this way? I think much of this depends on context and how the word is used, so know that I’m speaking directly from how I use these words when I write.

Five random words I have used before and like a lot:

facsimile: I prefer this to the shortened fax. I like the stressed second syllable, how it sounds like an ‘x’ but looks weird on the page; should a ‘c’ ever come before an ‘s’ in a word? Are there other words that look this weird? I like how the last syllable feels on my tongue/in my head when I finish reading the word aloud or to myself.

navigate(d): I like to use this verb a lot. I like to try to  figure out what things can be ‘navigated’; therefore, I tend to use it more often in its transitive form. In the past tense, this verb really sounds good in my head because of the final syllable. I think that extra bit makes me put even more stress on the third syllable, which helps me sometimes work out a sentence’s structure, figure out where the most interesting textures occur and what I need to cut in order to bring that out.

kind: I like this word because it is so simple, but it feels unique to me because I like to look at the letter ‘k.’ I like to use it in a sentence to replace ‘nice’ and also in phrases like ‘some kind of’ or ‘a kind of’ and so on. I think of it as a little word to use when I want to build rhythmic phrases.

rudimentary: Something about the end of this word makes me feel like I am tapping my fingers on the desk in a pleasing way. I think the ‘-ary’ of it oddly extends the syllables, like, oh, it’s over at the ‘t,’ but wait there’s more!

gather(ed): I associate this word with children, though I don’t know why. This word seems childlike to me. I think it has origins in ‘fellowship’ and ‘community,’ which might explain the positive feelings I feel when I read it. I like about it the softness after the hard ‘g’ sound. And can ‘g’ ever be all that hard of a sound?

BONUS – Here is a word I usually do not like:

kept: I have too often read this word in verb phrases like ‘kept going’ and ‘kept trying’ and so on. For some reason, I have a hard time liking those verbs, partially because I think they are a little clumsy sounding to me. This has unfortunately ruined my appreciation of the adjective ‘kept,’ which I think could lead to some neat noun phrases.

–adjective

2. having the expression of principles, ideas, etc., controlled, dominated, or determined by one whose money provides support: a kept press; a kept writer.

According to that definition, I am a ‘kept writer.’

(Just kidding, dear wife! Love you!)

So what are some of your favorite words?

122 Comments

  1. Drew

      I use ‘ephemeral’ and ‘Disraeli’ way too much.

  2. Drew

      I use ‘ephemeral’ and ‘Disraeli’ way too much.

  3. Drew

      I use ‘ephemeral’ and ‘Disraeli’ way too much.

  4. Ryan Call

      i always get ethereal and ephemeral confused

  5. Ryan Call

      i always get ethereal and ephemeral confused

  6. Ryan Call

      i always get ethereal and ephemeral confused

  7. Blake Butler

      i am determined now to use the word ‘befucked’ soon

  8. Blake Butler

      i am determined now to use the word ‘befucked’ soon

  9. Erik Stinson

      ‘sensual’

      ‘rejuvenate’

  10. Erik Stinson

      ‘sensual’

      ‘rejuvenate’

  11. Blake Butler

      i am determined now to use the word ‘befucked’ soon

  12. Erik Stinson

      ‘sensual’

      ‘rejuvenate’

  13. Ryan Call

      i coulda sworn ive read that word in a thing you wrote

  14. Ryan Call

      i coulda sworn ive read that word in a thing you wrote

  15. Ryan Call

      i coulda sworn ive read that word in a thing you wrote

  16. Ryan Call

      ‘juvenile’

  17. Ryan Call

      ‘juvenile’

  18. Ryan Call

      ‘juvenile’

  19. Blake Butler

      haha, entirely possible. i cant remember, but i hope so.

  20. Blake Butler

      haha, entirely possible. i cant remember, but i hope so.

  21. Blake Butler

      haha, entirely possible. i cant remember, but i hope so.

  22. Ken Baumann

      father, mother, blood, stone, gravid, river, omnipotent, fire, swerved, knuckles, red, born, space, my, head, face, light, well, window, wall, room, door, water, ash, city

  23. Ken Baumann

      father, mother, blood, stone, gravid, river, omnipotent, fire, swerved, knuckles, red, born, space, my, head, face, light, well, window, wall, room, door, water, ash, city

  24. Ken Baumann

      father, mother, blood, stone, gravid, river, omnipotent, fire, swerved, knuckles, red, born, space, my, head, face, light, well, window, wall, room, door, water, ash, city

  25. Adam Robinson

      In Andy Devine’s book, WORDS (forthcoming PGP 2010), there are lists of words never to use in fiction, and I think “rudimentary” might be on there.

      You’re going to hate that book.

  26. Adam Robinson

      In Andy Devine’s book, WORDS (forthcoming PGP 2010), there are lists of words never to use in fiction, and I think “rudimentary” might be on there.

      You’re going to hate that book.

  27. Adam Robinson

      In Andy Devine’s book, WORDS (forthcoming PGP 2010), there are lists of words never to use in fiction, and I think “rudimentary” might be on there.

      You’re going to hate that book.

  28. Ryan Call

      yeah i remember that list from the interview. i dont think i hated it. i liked reading what he said about it.

  29. Ryan Call

      yeah i remember that list from the interview. i dont think i hated it. i liked reading what he said about it.

  30. Ryan Call

      yeah i remember that list from the interview. i dont think i hated it. i liked reading what he said about it.

  31. christopher earl.

      i use “shatter” a lot. probably too much. it just sounds so fuckingood. shit. i used it in my last poem.

      also, whisper, honest, desperate, homely/unfortunate, verily, kaleidescope of power, and face.

  32. christopher earl.

      i use “shatter” a lot. probably too much. it just sounds so fuckingood. shit. i used it in my last poem.

      also, whisper, honest, desperate, homely/unfortunate, verily, kaleidescope of power, and face.

  33. christopher earl.

      i use “shatter” a lot. probably too much. it just sounds so fuckingood. shit. i used it in my last poem.

      also, whisper, honest, desperate, homely/unfortunate, verily, kaleidescope of power, and face.

  34. Ryan Call

      i like ‘unfortunate’ a lot.

  35. Ryan Call

      i like ‘unfortunate’ a lot.

  36. Ryan Call

      i like ‘unfortunate’ a lot.

  37. christopher earl.

      it’s a great word to use in place of “ugly,” “homely,” etc.

  38. christopher earl.

      it’s a great word to use in place of “ugly,” “homely,” etc.

  39. christopher earl.

      it’s a great word to use in place of “ugly,” “homely,” etc.

  40. alan

      Well, as a matter of fact I do keep a running list of words and phrases I come across that might not come naturally to me and could possibly be useful or funny in some context or other.

      Random examples from my list: leathery (for old people), eye-watering (smells), spindly, awash, ridonculous, mise-en-abyme, women’s beach volleyball, life-based belief system, muster, to be between situations, untethered, nuh-huh, uncountable, odd-colored, low-functioning.

  41. alan

      Well, as a matter of fact I do keep a running list of words and phrases I come across that might not come naturally to me and could possibly be useful or funny in some context or other.

      Random examples from my list: leathery (for old people), eye-watering (smells), spindly, awash, ridonculous, mise-en-abyme, women’s beach volleyball, life-based belief system, muster, to be between situations, untethered, nuh-huh, uncountable, odd-colored, low-functioning.

  42. alan

      Well, as a matter of fact I do keep a running list of words and phrases I come across that might not come naturally to me and could possibly be useful or funny in some context or other.

      Random examples from my list: leathery (for old people), eye-watering (smells), spindly, awash, ridonculous, mise-en-abyme, women’s beach volleyball, life-based belief system, muster, to be between situations, untethered, nuh-huh, uncountable, odd-colored, low-functioning.

  43. alec niedenthal

      “stuff”

  44. alec niedenthal

      “stuff”

  45. alec niedenthal

      “stuff”

  46. josh

      word i use too much: discovered
      word i want to use more: exonerate

  47. josh

      word i use too much: discovered
      word i want to use more: exonerate

  48. Nathan Tyree

      For some reason I use Menachem Begin as a verb.

  49. Nathan Tyree

      For some reason I use Menachem Begin as a verb.

  50. josh

      word i use too much: discovered
      word i want to use more: exonerate

  51. Nathan Tyree

      For some reason I use Menachem Begin as a verb.

  52. Josh Maday

      Ha, yes, I thought of Devine immediately when I read this post. Good call, Adam. Here’s an early version of Devine’s “Words You Shouldn’t Use in Fiction” list from a few years ago in the Avatar Review. Says you shouldn’t use the word ‘bottleneck’ in fiction, nor ‘chap’ nor ‘caress’ nor ‘fart’. Just don’t do it.

  53. Josh Maday

      Ha, yes, I thought of Devine immediately when I read this post. Good call, Adam. Here’s an early version of Devine’s “Words You Shouldn’t Use in Fiction” list from a few years ago in the Avatar Review. Says you shouldn’t use the word ‘bottleneck’ in fiction, nor ‘chap’ nor ‘caress’ nor ‘fart’. Just don’t do it.

  54. Josh Maday

      Ha, yes, I thought of Devine immediately when I read this post. Good call, Adam. Here’s an early version of Devine’s “Words You Shouldn’t Use in Fiction” list from a few years ago in the Avatar Review. Says you shouldn’t use the word ‘bottleneck’ in fiction, nor ‘chap’ nor ‘caress’ nor ‘fart’. Just don’t do it.

  55. audri

      favourite sounding words: milk, talc, lupine, spatula, antediluvian (though kind of judeo-christian connotation which leaves a bad aftertaste)
      most overused word: also
      funniest word: wheels
      word i fucking hate: mortgage
      word toward which i am ambivalent – moderately dislike for no logical reason: very (kind of useless, doesn’t look real or appealing)

  56. audri

      favourite sounding words: milk, talc, lupine, spatula, antediluvian (though kind of judeo-christian connotation which leaves a bad aftertaste)
      most overused word: also
      funniest word: wheels
      word i fucking hate: mortgage
      word toward which i am ambivalent – moderately dislike for no logical reason: very (kind of useless, doesn’t look real or appealing)

  57. audri

      favourite sounding words: milk, talc, lupine, spatula, antediluvian (though kind of judeo-christian connotation which leaves a bad aftertaste)
      most overused word: also
      funniest word: wheels
      word i fucking hate: mortgage
      word toward which i am ambivalent – moderately dislike for no logical reason: very (kind of useless, doesn’t look real or appealing)

  58. Rauan

      my sorts of words

  59. Rauan

      my sorts of words

  60. Rauan

      my sorts of words

  61. audri

      i feel strangely compelled to write a story about an ubiquitous walrus in therapy. and his concubine.

  62. audri

      i feel strangely compelled to write a story about an ubiquitous walrus in therapy. and his concubine.

  63. audri

      i feel strangely compelled to write a story about an ubiquitous walrus in therapy. and his concubine.

  64. reynard seifert

      i think i like words that sound like what they are supposed to represent, even though that doesn’t make any sense.

  65. reynard seifert

      i think i like words that sound like what they are supposed to represent, even though that doesn’t make any sense.

  66. reynard seifert

      i think i like words that sound like what they are supposed to represent, even though that doesn’t make any sense.

  67. Roxane Gay

      I use expanse a great deal. Also muscle, spine, stretch.

  68. Roxane Gay

      I use expanse a great deal. Also muscle, spine, stretch.

  69. Roxane Gay

      I use expanse a great deal. Also muscle, spine, stretch.

  70. Matthew Simmons

      like, one, back, dad, little, just, went, never, father, home

      most common words in HAPPY ROCK, it seems.

  71. Matthew Simmons

      like, one, back, dad, little, just, went, never, father, home

      most common words in HAPPY ROCK, it seems.

  72. Matthew Simmons

      like, one, back, dad, little, just, went, never, father, home

      most common words in HAPPY ROCK, it seems.

  73. michael james

      decoct———destructed——-we————fluvial———-cootie (i’ve used this twice. the second time it felt so great to finally use it and use it right)—————- broke’d ———— various combinations of everyday words written in bad grammar and put in -ed form, sometimes without the ‘e’.

      words i want to use: morello, dissident, oilcake, faradism, inveigled, jeroboam——- and my favorite of all: onanism….

  74. michael james

      decoct———destructed——-we————fluvial———-cootie (i’ve used this twice. the second time it felt so great to finally use it and use it right)—————- broke’d ———— various combinations of everyday words written in bad grammar and put in -ed form, sometimes without the ‘e’.

      words i want to use: morello, dissident, oilcake, faradism, inveigled, jeroboam——- and my favorite of all: onanism….

  75. michael james

      decoct———destructed——-we————fluvial———-cootie (i’ve used this twice. the second time it felt so great to finally use it and use it right)—————- broke’d ———— various combinations of everyday words written in bad grammar and put in -ed form, sometimes without the ‘e’.

      words i want to use: morello, dissident, oilcake, faradism, inveigled, jeroboam——- and my favorite of all: onanism….

  76. Dan

      thought i posted this but it’s not there

      overuse: solipsism/solipsistic, insofar

      good words: abecedarian, shit, resonant

  77. Dan

      thought i posted this but it’s not there

      overuse: solipsism/solipsistic, insofar

      good words: abecedarian, shit, resonant

  78. Dan

      thought i posted this but it’s not there

      overuse: solipsism/solipsistic, insofar

      good words: abecedarian, shit, resonant

  79. mimi

      good: ew, ick, yuck, yikes, dang it, jesus, nosferatu, negligee, noxious, nomenclature, glow-in-the-dark, sidewalk, asscrack, shit sandwich, shit storm, jiggy-wid-it, chop shop, britney spears, gregory peck, hurache

      bad: thong, nascent, nosehair, snodgrass, nimrod, nesbit, nuclear, fuckhead, dickwad, mars, buckwheat, colonel blimp, beyonce

  80. mimi

      good: ew, ick, yuck, yikes, dang it, jesus, nosferatu, negligee, noxious, nomenclature, glow-in-the-dark, sidewalk, asscrack, shit sandwich, shit storm, jiggy-wid-it, chop shop, britney spears, gregory peck, hurache

      bad: thong, nascent, nosehair, snodgrass, nimrod, nesbit, nuclear, fuckhead, dickwad, mars, buckwheat, colonel blimp, beyonce

  81. mimi

      good: ew, ick, yuck, yikes, dang it, jesus, nosferatu, negligee, noxious, nomenclature, glow-in-the-dark, sidewalk, asscrack, shit sandwich, shit storm, jiggy-wid-it, chop shop, britney spears, gregory peck, hurache

      bad: thong, nascent, nosehair, snodgrass, nimrod, nesbit, nuclear, fuckhead, dickwad, mars, buckwheat, colonel blimp, beyonce

  82. sasha fletcher

      i use the word ‘several’ with great frequency.
      also the phrase ‘such as’ has been popping up a lot.
      and bird[s]
      also darkness
      said
      and

  83. sasha fletcher

      i use the word ‘several’ with great frequency.
      also the phrase ‘such as’ has been popping up a lot.
      and bird[s]
      also darkness
      said
      and

  84. sasha fletcher

      i use the word ‘several’ with great frequency.
      also the phrase ‘such as’ has been popping up a lot.
      and bird[s]
      also darkness
      said
      and

  85. mimi

      I thought of more:

      good: anger, ankara, angkor wat, watts, wattle

      probably in my top five: mascara

      bad: nugget (especially when describing something found in or just outside a body orifice)

      so bad they’re good: clusterfuck, circle jerk

      agnes – good, angus – bad
      go figure

  86. mimi

      I thought of more:

      good: anger, ankara, angkor wat, watts, wattle

      probably in my top five: mascara

      bad: nugget (especially when describing something found in or just outside a body orifice)

      so bad they’re good: clusterfuck, circle jerk

      agnes – good, angus – bad
      go figure

  87. mimi

      I thought of more:

      good: anger, ankara, angkor wat, watts, wattle

      probably in my top five: mascara

      bad: nugget (especially when describing something found in or just outside a body orifice)

      so bad they’re good: clusterfuck, circle jerk

      agnes – good, angus – bad
      go figure

  88. joseph

      I have difficulty writing anything that doesn’t involve the word “fester”

  89. joseph

      I have difficulty writing anything that doesn’t involve the word “fester”

  90. joseph

      I have difficulty writing anything that doesn’t involve the word “fester”

  91. michael james

      i came across circle-jerk the other day and am attempting to write a poem titled just that, about a literal circle-jerk and the consequences and celebrations of such an act.

  92. michael james

      i came across circle-jerk the other day and am attempting to write a poem titled just that, about a literal circle-jerk and the consequences and celebrations of such an act.

  93. michael james

      i came across circle-jerk the other day and am attempting to write a poem titled just that, about a literal circle-jerk and the consequences and celebrations of such an act.

  94. david erlewine

      made me laugh

  95. david erlewine

      made me laugh

  96. david erlewine

      made me laugh

  97. jh

      Navigate is real nice to use when referring to the self because of all the tiny words that make it up and their various resonances: OED-wise it refers to a vessel (body), navi- is similar to naval (i.e. naval gazing, etc), and obviously -gate is a gate and/or boundary barrier, navi- also comes from ‘nave’ i.e. the nave of a church and what, I might ask, do we think of as more holy than ourselves.

  98. jh

      Navigate is real nice to use when referring to the self because of all the tiny words that make it up and their various resonances: OED-wise it refers to a vessel (body), navi- is similar to naval (i.e. naval gazing, etc), and obviously -gate is a gate and/or boundary barrier, navi- also comes from ‘nave’ i.e. the nave of a church and what, I might ask, do we think of as more holy than ourselves.

  99. jh

      Navigate is real nice to use when referring to the self because of all the tiny words that make it up and their various resonances: OED-wise it refers to a vessel (body), navi- is similar to naval (i.e. naval gazing, etc), and obviously -gate is a gate and/or boundary barrier, navi- also comes from ‘nave’ i.e. the nave of a church and what, I might ask, do we think of as more holy than ourselves.

  100. jh

      ‘navel’ not ‘naval’

  101. jh

      ‘navel’ not ‘naval’

  102. jh

      ‘navel’ not ‘naval’

  103. mimi

      A literal circle jerk or a literary circle jerk?

  104. mimi

      A literal circle jerk or a literary circle jerk?

  105. mimi

      A literal circle jerk or a literary circle jerk?

  106. michael james

      literal.

  107. michael james

      literal.

  108. michael james

      literal.

  109. ryan

      I use words that let me sneak in hard uptempo t-sounds too much. Words like ‘tiny,’ little,’ etc.

  110. ryan

      I use words that let me sneak in hard uptempo t-sounds too much. Words like ‘tiny,’ little,’ etc.

  111. ryan

      I use words that let me sneak in hard uptempo t-sounds too much. Words like ‘tiny,’ little,’ etc.

  112. The Jersey Devil

      I am partial to the word FORMICATION. Which hath little to do with shagging.

  113. The Jersey Devil

      I am partial to the word FORMICATION. Which hath little to do with shagging.

  114. The Jersey Devil

      I am partial to the word FORMICATION. Which hath little to do with shagging.

  115. lorian

      seedy

  116. lorian

      seedy

  117. lorian

      seedy

  118. Nathan Tyree

      Defenestrate

  119. Nathan Tyree

      Defenestrate

  120. Nathan Tyree

      Defenestrate

  121. michael james

      so… i wrote that circle jerk poem. and i got to use the word ‘onanist’ without being an complete asshole.

  122. michael james

      so… i wrote that circle jerk poem. and i got to use the word ‘onanist’ without being an complete asshole.